Feeling really stressed or worried?
Everyone feels anxious from time to time. It could be your body’s way of telling you you’re not safe or something’s not right.
Feeling some anxiety can even help you to stay focused and achieve more when working to a deadline or competing in a competition, for example. Without some pressure, the Brownlee brothers wouldn’t have smashed the Olympics (again) and Adele wouldn’t have number one songs.
If you are spending too much time worrying about certain situations or things that are happening to you, however, it can start to have a negative effect. This can happen to anyone, and in fact Adele has spoken out in the past about her own anxiety and how it’s affected her ability to perform.
If anxiety is affecting your day-to-day life it can help to understand what causes it and know how to find help.
Where can I find help?
You might find these tips helpful to help you de-stress.
If you are feeling anxious too often or for too long and it’s starting to affect how you feel, it’s a good idea to talk to someone you trust – whether a teacher, parent, carer or your best friend. Or if you prefer you can find people you can talk to here.
So what does anxiety feel like?…
When you feel anxious you might notice
- your heart beats faster
- your throat goes dry
- your stomach starts to churn
- you feel sick or dizzy
- you feel hot and sweaty
- you feel like you need to wee or poo
- you feel strange like you’re not really there
- you can’t think straight
These sensations are all part of a normal, natural response which developed millions of years ago, to help us react to sudden life-threatening dangers. Early humans often needed to either run for their lives, or be ready to fight, when faced with a dangerous animal or a hostile tribe. When we feel anxious it’s actually the body going through some temporary changes to help us react more quickly and create more energy for running.
Although we no longer face the same kind of dangers, this response – known as ‘Flight or fight’ – can still save lives sometimes. It can help us move quickly out of the way of a speeding car, for example. The trouble is everyday worries and fears, which are usually not life-threatening, can trigger the same response so that our bodies respond to protect us as if we were in real danger.
Anxiety is when you feel fearful or nervous about certain situations or worried about things that might happen. All kinds of things, big and small, can make people feel anxious – everyone is different. You might be worried about taking an exam, having to speak in public, problems at home or even going out on a date.
Stress is when you feel overwhelmed by too many problems or too much pressure and start to find it hard to cope. Stress can trigger the ‘Flight or fight’ response causing feelings of anxiety.
While these feelings will usually go away they can sometimes develop into a panic attack. Panic attacks can be scary but can’t cause you any physical harm.
